Desire to control everyone and everything all the time
This wish can be dictated by perfectionism, egocentrism, lack of trust and a variety of other reasons.
But all these consequences have a common cause - a violation of attachment in childhood: at some point the child ceased to feel secure around his parents. He stopped trusting this world and feeling relaxed.
Growing up, such children rely only on themselves. It would seem that this is absolutely… See moreDesire to control everyone and everything all the time
This wish can be dictated by perfectionism, egocentrism, lack of trust and a variety of other reasons.
But all these consequences have a common cause - a violation of attachment in childhood: at some point the child ceased to feel secure around his parents. He stopped trusting this world and feeling relaxed.
Growing up, such children rely only on themselves. It would seem that this is absolutely "great".
But there is a flip side of the coin: even when they need help, they do not ask for it, being afraid to admit to themselves some weakness. Such adults live in a state of constant tension and expect some kind of trick from the world.
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