Sometimes you gotta do what you love:fire:
Do you want to continue doing a hobby that is not interesting to your partner? Do you want to spend time with friends, like to be alone for a couple of hours? This is fine. Loving yourself will help you love your partner more.
Your individual interests, independence and separation from each other for a while contribute to maintaining the love flame. Certainty and constant intimacy destroy passion. They are relevant only at… See moreSometimes you gotta do what you love:fire:
Do you want to continue doing a hobby that is not interesting to your partner? Do you want to spend time with friends, like to be alone for a couple of hours? This is fine. Loving yourself will help you love your partner more.
Your individual interests, independence and separation from each other for a while contribute to maintaining the love flame. Certainty and constant intimacy destroy passion. They are relevant only at the very beginning.
Keeping your distance contributes to attraction because people usually want what they don't currently have. We need to defend our right to individuality if we want to remain attractive to a partner, even if he does not want to let you go from himself.
There is another reason why you need to keep doing your job: sacrificing yourself, you accumulate discontent and resentment and feel miserable.
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